Reading your words was a delight. You have raised two beautiful and competent human beings, ready to face the struggles of life and be useful to society. Our kids can be the greatest legacy we bequeath this world. Maybe that is our ultimate duty in life. To leave after us worthy successors assigned with the task to surpass us and make a difference, and so far, Scott, judging by your story, you are doing a great job. If only more parents could understand, how better their children would be if they moved out of their way. We need to be behind them pushing them forward, not blocking their path with our constant intervention.